Tuesday, 25 September 2007

Naija Bruvs? Why Go Home To Marry?

It's a question you either ask yourself or ask others... A rather big, mysterious question! A question that is often directed at either gender but which is in this case directed at the Naija male!Yep! Why do our UK based, men decide to fly into Naija to find themselves a so-called wife? What exactly are they desiring to find in these women that our UK based naija sisters are lacking?In my opinion, the typical naija man who follows this trait is either blind, insecure or has been bitten by bad experience that makes him conclude all our sisters are bad, rotten to the core and elusive. He is the kind of guy who has had his time of fun dating and messing with great potential women who would have married him. The fact that one apple was bad does not mean that all the others will be spoilt rotten too. He flies home to spend money he would not have spent on a woman in the UK and returns with a wife who be submissive to him for just a while! Just wait until her ticket expires, the VISA is stayed and she has found comfort in friends and the good old English way of life! Then he'll remember the old adage: the grass is always greener on the other side!There are numerous African beauties here in the UK willing and able to hold their own as well as be a submissive, obedient, loving and respectful wife and mother to his majesty. Save yourself alot of pain and choose not to determine the character of a future wife by her location.Wherever you are your wife and life partner will be there. All you need to do is be sensitive, kind, romantic, wise and prayerful.